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Can you hug your parents again? Yes – if they are prepared to take the risk, says Dr Norman Swan

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With the number of coronavirus cases in the community falling and restrictions easing, we’ve been eager to see older family members and friends face-to-face again – but weren’t sure if we – or the kids – should be giving them a hug.

So, we were pleased to get an answer to this question this week on ABC’s Coronacast podcast with Dr Norman Swan.

The physician and journalist acknowledged this is a tough question – the virus is at low levels in the community but there is still a risk. However, it may be one that our parents – and grandparents – are willing to take.

“I think this is a conversation they need to have in families because it’s not so much about spreading the virus, it’s more about protecting them against serious illness, and if they are prepared to take the small risk, then why not,” he said. “But families have got to be really responsible about colds, sniffles, slightest symbols, maximum testing, particularly in families with elderly parents, so that you know, as much as you can know, that you are as safe as you can be.”

Dr Swan advised anyone over the age of 70 who may have other health issues to wear a mask while outside in the community and continue to practise good hand hygiene.

“If you are 70 and really healthy, there’s still an increased risk of dying if you get COVID-19, but it depends on whether you’re prepared to take that risk as an individual,” he said. “If the rule is in your family (just repeating myself) that nobody comes to you with a cough and cold, if there is any doubt at all, the family gets tested, then there should be no reason why they can’t come round and have a dinner with you at home, assuming there is basic hygiene.”

The doctor also warned that people living in aged care homes are also still at heightened risk – even if your relative may be relatively healthy.

“Your elderly relative might be perfectly fine and well, but there are other people in the facility who are really sick, and therefore you don’t want to bring in any disease or infection, and that’s why residential aged care facilities are being super careful, you just don’t want an outbreak like the one they’ve seen.”

Sensible advice.

You can listen to the full podcast here.

Lauren is a journalist for villages.com.au, agedcare101 and The Donaldson Sisters. Growing up in a big family in small town communities, she has always had a love for the written word, joining her local library at the age of six months. With over eight years' experience in writing and editing, she is a keen follower of news and current affairs with a nose for a good story.


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