There are no clauses to this secret. Phil Usher, CEO of aged care provider Odyssey Lifestyle Care Communities, says having enjoying the holiday season starts with older Australians being active participants rather than observers.
“It’s more often than not that Grandma or Grandad observe Christmas rather than getting involved, and that works for some people, but not all,” said Phil from his Odyssey community at Robina on Queensland’s Gold Coast.
“We want to see our seniors getting involved in some all-inclusive, family-friendly projects for the holiday season and we need to get out of the ‘stick them in the corner’ mentality.”
Find activities that older people enjoy
“What I have found very successful previously, is encouraging Grandma or Grandad to participate in projects that were common in their era. This includes things like a special drink, recipe or a craft-based decorative tradition.
“Young children can also benefit from this as it offers something new and, in most cases, sparks a sense of nostalgia within a family, which is what the holidays are all about.”
With more than two decades of experience within the aged care industry, Phil (pictured with a resident) has seen many festive seasons play out among families and says the leadup to Christmas is just as important as the event itself.
“If possible, take your senior loved ones gift shopping, this provides input into hands-on aspects,” says Phil.
“Writing was an integral aspect of past generations, so you could get them involved with the Christmas card list, if they’re up to it.”
Reach out to your local aged care home
For seniors who may not have much family, Phil says individuals willing to brighten up Christmas for the elderly can reach out to their local aged care community.
“There are many seniors who spend the day alone and don’t receive visitors, which can be incredibly lonely and depressing,” he said.
“Get in touch and let your local aged care community know if you and your family would love to have some surrogate grandparents to spend Christmas Day with and I’m sure they will be accommodating.
“When considering the needs of our seniors, we can think beyond our immediate family and come together as a wider community.
“A small act of kindness can go a long way, especially during the festive season.”
